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Have to record this for posterity (like in case she makes the nightly news at some future date). But here is a letter that was mailed to my student account today:
So...to make a long story short - me and my sister sort of have a stalker (from hs....long time ago). And past week she's had my parent's phone number on speed dial, and calling up all my relatives to find my cell phone number or my sister's. And....shit's been a little weird just recently. She masqueraded as a student of mine (who I don't have) and left a message for me at the math dept. yesterday and today. And she called my Aunt at 12:30 at night...and my aunt thought at first it was a phone call from the government about my cousin Carl (he's in the rangers in Iraq) so she kind of freaked. That really sucked. And she called my other aunt Donna, and my Uncle Louie, and my other uncle denny.
On the plus side - she hasn't started making death threats (like she did with one of her professors at UC Santa Barbara). Of course, I haven't cleaned out the voice mail on my mom's cell phone yet (which is full of Thoy messages).
So anyone out there on my flist have experience dealing with creepy sociopathic stalkers? =) I am hoping this is my last one. It really bites =( =(
tyler,
wow, did i get an interesting message on my cell this evening at
6pm. i had left my cell phone at home to be recharged before going to
work. on my way to work, i also dropped off some paid bills and
letters. your letter was one of them. so, there was no way for me to
have known of your father's wishes prior to 6pm. naturally,
when you get the letter, you will destroy it, right? the tone in my
letter was rather naive, excited and sweet -- because i had no idea
that i was harassing anyone -- so it would be inappropriate for you to
read it. please destroy it for my sake.
6pm. i had left my cell phone at home to be recharged before going to
work. on my way to work, i also dropped off some paid bills and
letters. your letter was one of them. so, there was no way for me to
have known of your father's wishes prior to 6pm. naturally,
when you get the letter, you will destroy it, right? the tone in my
letter was rather naive, excited and sweet -- because i had no idea
that i was harassing anyone -- so it would be inappropriate for you to
read it. please destroy it for my sake.
i am sending a carbon copy to 2 really good friends of mine in the
event you or your father report to the state authorities. i am not
scared; i think this whole thing has a comical quality to it. to
respect his wishes, this will be my last email to you; after this, i
will also block both your email addresses to further the promise i made
in response to his threat.
event you or your father report to the state authorities. i am not
scared; i think this whole thing has a comical quality to it. to
respect his wishes, this will be my last email to you; after this, i
will also block both your email addresses to further the promise i made
in response to his threat.
since this will be the last, allow me at least to explain:
all the information that i got to get a hold of your uncle dennis
seefeld was on the internet (search engine: google). there was not
much actually. and I used the internet's white pages for iowa to find
his phone number. after i called him, he gave me some guy named louis
maharas or something like that's number. he told me to call this louis
guy to get your parent's number. so, i did. this louis guy gives me
your parents' cell number and another number in norfolk, virginia
(assuming this must be teresa's number). so i called and your father
responded. this was about 3 nights ago. I also told your dad that i
would call back to talk to your mother sometime. we ended the phone
conversation very nicely.
seefeld was on the internet (search engine: google). there was not
much actually. and I used the internet's white pages for iowa to find
his phone number. after i called him, he gave me some guy named louis
maharas or something like that's number. he told me to call this louis
guy to get your parent's number. so, i did. this louis guy gives me
your parents' cell number and another number in norfolk, virginia
(assuming this must be teresa's number). so i called and your father
responded. this was about 3 nights ago. I also told your dad that i
would call back to talk to your mother sometime. we ended the phone
conversation very nicely.
the next day, i called your parent's cell. i got this message
that their message box was full and that i was to call back later. so,
later the next day, i called again and got the same message. i tried a
few more times the next day with no success. my goal was to catch your
mom just to say "hi". that was all.
that their message box was full and that i was to call back later. so,
later the next day, i called again and got the same message. i tried a
few more times the next day with no success. my goal was to catch your
mom just to say "hi". that was all.
but since i have had problems with my cell phone sometimes, i
thought there might be something wrong with your parent's cell phone,
too, because it seemed weird that it would be full for 2 days
straight. i would not die if i did not speak with your mom, but i do
think highly of her and it would be nice.
thought there might be something wrong with your parent's cell phone,
too, because it seemed weird that it would be full for 2 days
straight. i would not die if i did not speak with your mom, but i do
think highly of her and it would be nice.
so, to be sure, i called dennis seefeld today around 11am to see
if he was having problems getting a hold of your mom, too. i explained
that i keep this full message. he said he was not sure what the
problem was. then his wife, gloria, came on and asked me who i was. i
told him that i was tyler's and teresa's highschool/childhood friend
from california. then she told me about her son carl and how scared
she was since he was in iraq and all. i told her that i would pray for
him since i do pray sometimes for good things to happen to people. she
thanked me and also gave me this louis maharas' phone number. i told
gloria that i had a card for her; she told me to call louis to get her
FPO address or something like that. i thought about calling louis
later, but never got a chance to.
if he was having problems getting a hold of your mom, too. i explained
that i keep this full message. he said he was not sure what the
problem was. then his wife, gloria, came on and asked me who i was. i
told him that i was tyler's and teresa's highschool/childhood friend
from california. then she told me about her son carl and how scared
she was since he was in iraq and all. i told her that i would pray for
him since i do pray sometimes for good things to happen to people. she
thanked me and also gave me this louis maharas' phone number. i told
gloria that i had a card for her; she told me to call louis to get her
FPO address or something like that. i thought about calling louis
later, but never got a chance to.
i sent you another email because you did not respond to the last
one. i thought you might have not used the grayghost account as your
primary account. i tried to leave you a message with the math
department's secretary; i thought up of a name because i never liked
"thoy" and i figured if you had time, you would call, and find out that
it was just me. but no calls, no response to my emails.
one. i thought you might have not used the grayghost account as your
primary account. i tried to leave you a message with the math
department's secretary; i thought up of a name because i never liked
"thoy" and i figured if you had time, you would call, and find out that
it was just me. but no calls, no response to my emails.
now, after i listened to your father's stern message 4 times
(partly because i was in shock, then i laughed), i think i might be
catching on. i never contacted teresa, i never spoke to your mother, i
technically never successfully communicated with you (that I am
cognizant of) nor have i harassed anyone. information that i got was
free and from your aunt and uncle who offered them to me very willingly
and very freely. so, the idea that i was harassing anyone -- under
this circumstance -- would never hold in a court of law in any state.
however, the judge would speculate the same thing as i would: how the
hell does a person from california with a job and other important
commitment "harass" people in all these other states -- 3 of which she
has never even been to? if you can come up with a clever and logical
response, let me know, because i am not sure if you can justify the
allegation that i harassed anyone.
(partly because i was in shock, then i laughed), i think i might be
catching on. i never contacted teresa, i never spoke to your mother, i
technically never successfully communicated with you (that I am
cognizant of) nor have i harassed anyone. information that i got was
free and from your aunt and uncle who offered them to me very willingly
and very freely. so, the idea that i was harassing anyone -- under
this circumstance -- would never hold in a court of law in any state.
however, the judge would speculate the same thing as i would: how the
hell does a person from california with a job and other important
commitment "harass" people in all these other states -- 3 of which she
has never even been to? if you can come up with a clever and logical
response, let me know, because i am not sure if you can justify the
allegation that i harassed anyone.
however, having said that, i have no problems honoring your
father's threat that he left on my cell phone. i don't know what is
really going on, but if he wants no more communication from me, i will
be more than happy to oblige. i am, however, sorry that this
information had to come to me in this form, from him and i was not even
given any warning that this was his feelings or the feelings of your
family. a simple request or statement would have done it; you all, do,
after all live in other states. true harassment takes so much time and
energy, and i really don't have it.
father's threat that he left on my cell phone. i don't know what is
really going on, but if he wants no more communication from me, i will
be more than happy to oblige. i am, however, sorry that this
information had to come to me in this form, from him and i was not even
given any warning that this was his feelings or the feelings of your
family. a simple request or statement would have done it; you all, do,
after all live in other states. true harassment takes so much time and
energy, and i really don't have it.
it has never been my intention -- ever since i came to know you
and your family -- to intrude on anyone's life. or to be where i was
not wanted. but you all never even hinted to me that i was not
welcomed; until now. which is nice, since, now i finally know.
better late then never, right?
and your family -- to intrude on anyone's life. or to be where i was
not wanted. but you all never even hinted to me that i was not
welcomed; until now. which is nice, since, now i finally know.
better late then never, right?
i have moved on. thank you, to your father, for insisting that i
do this. when i discovered that your family had moved out of the
state, i thought i would be nice call -- perhaps for the last time to
end things on a positive note -- just to see how everyone was doing.
not with the intent to cling to you like static.
do this. when i discovered that your family had moved out of the
state, i thought i would be nice call -- perhaps for the last time to
end things on a positive note -- just to see how everyone was doing.
not with the intent to cling to you like static.
i surrendered my desire to keep a close relationship with you and
your family when you were living a few streets away from my parents'
residence in california years and years ago, why the hell would i try
doing that now that you and your family are scattered all over the us?
i only called and wanted to casually write once in a while to see how
you all are coming along.
your family when you were living a few streets away from my parents'
residence in california years and years ago, why the hell would i try
doing that now that you and your family are scattered all over the us?
i only called and wanted to casually write once in a while to see how
you all are coming along.
you will not be hearing from me anymore, but please do destroy
that letter that was already sent prior to your father's threat of
filing a restraining order against me in california.
that letter that was already sent prior to your father's threat of
filing a restraining order against me in california.
i am already on the way to buying my own house, in a wonderful
relationship with a man and is preparing for another major step in my
career. plus my biological family and their children are hitting those
wonderful milestones in their lives that i truly enjoy sharing the
times with them. there's more wonderful and exciting things happening
(can someone say ROME, italy???), so, in short, i think i will be just
fine without the occasional communications with the wilsons or
seefelds. and if not, i do have many new friends -- it's a miracle that
i can find new friends, i know -- that i can lean on and occasionally
can replace some old friends who came and was gone.
relationship with a man and is preparing for another major step in my
career. plus my biological family and their children are hitting those
wonderful milestones in their lives that i truly enjoy sharing the
times with them. there's more wonderful and exciting things happening
(can someone say ROME, italy???), so, in short, i think i will be just
fine without the occasional communications with the wilsons or
seefelds. and if not, i do have many new friends -- it's a miracle that
i can find new friends, i know -- that i can lean on and occasionally
can replace some old friends who came and was gone.
because of some unresolved issues and potential miscommunications,
i thought parting with you and your family might be slightly labored;
and the final withdrawal would be so difficult for me. but after this,
you and your family have made it all so easy for me. i will ask buddha
to watch over you through your studies, teresa as she sits in a tanker,
your parents as they anticipate uncertainties ahead, and carl seefeld
and his fellow soldiers who are all fighting a madman's war. may you
find peace and love.
i thought parting with you and your family might be slightly labored;
and the final withdrawal would be so difficult for me. but after this,
you and your family have made it all so easy for me. i will ask buddha
to watch over you through your studies, teresa as she sits in a tanker,
your parents as they anticipate uncertainties ahead, and carl seefeld
and his fellow soldiers who are all fighting a madman's war. may you
find peace and love.
sincerely,
thoy
So...to make a long story short - me and my sister sort of have a stalker (from hs....long time ago). And past week she's had my parent's phone number on speed dial, and calling up all my relatives to find my cell phone number or my sister's. And....shit's been a little weird just recently. She masqueraded as a student of mine (who I don't have) and left a message for me at the math dept. yesterday and today. And she called my Aunt at 12:30 at night...and my aunt thought at first it was a phone call from the government about my cousin Carl (he's in the rangers in Iraq) so she kind of freaked. That really sucked. And she called my other aunt Donna, and my Uncle Louie, and my other uncle denny.
On the plus side - she hasn't started making death threats (like she did with one of her professors at UC Santa Barbara). Of course, I haven't cleaned out the voice mail on my mom's cell phone yet (which is full of Thoy messages).
So anyone out there on my flist have experience dealing with creepy sociopathic stalkers? =) I am hoping this is my last one. It really bites =( =(
no subject
Date: 2005-07-16 07:03 am (UTC)From:no subject
Date: 2005-07-16 07:10 am (UTC)From:And he said it in scary Papa voice. =)=)
With all the justifications/rationalizations in that letter for her actions, I think it might have
brought her back to reality a little.
Kinda curious on wtf she wrote in that letter she sent me. She wants me to burn it without looking at it.
no subject
Date: 2005-07-16 07:13 am (UTC)From:no subject
Date: 2005-07-16 07:19 am (UTC)From:If you go to WSU website and search for my name, all my contact info is there. It's outdated, but I am grayghost@wsu.edu. I never use that account though. Everything just gets forwarded to my yahoo one. She knows that info...and the math dept. phone number, and that's it. She doesn't have my cell or else my phone would be ringing off the hook. And she doesn't know my address here (thank god).
Of course...if you try Googling grayghost, every Civil War buff in the south has that handle online as well as all these historical websites which turn up hits. So knowing the name doesn't do much good (which is one reason I picked it).
And my name has the name of three dead presidents.
no subject
Date: 2005-07-16 07:40 am (UTC)From:And my Papa did scary dad voice =) It was good to hear again.
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no subject
Date: 2005-07-16 06:15 pm (UTC)From:Probably saying nothing is best as it will only encourage her. Certainly your father's call seems to have spurred much more communication!